For a child who has hurt someone, two small words can suddenly feel enormous: “I’m sorry.” In that uncomfortable moment, the instinct may be to hide, make excuses, shift the blame, or pretend nothing happened—anything to avoid facing the hurt left behind. 
But an apology is not a magic reset button that instantly makes everything okay. Making amends means pausing to understand how another person feels, speaking with sincerity, and allowing them the time they need to respond—because forgiveness cannot be rushed, and trust is rebuilt one honest step at a time. 
And so, one veteran educator is bringing heart and honesty to one of childhood’s hardest social lessons—teaching kids a truth many adults still struggle to accept: forgiveness cannot be forced; it must be given the time and space to grow. 
Award-Winning Children’s Author, Stephanie Calmenson, joins our John Masiulionis and Little Forrest on Episode #282 of PR From The Heart’s Children’s Books Spotlight Series to share how the sudden loss of her teaching position became an unexpected turning point—leading her to the life-changing mentorship of The Magic School Bus Creator Joanna Cole and an enduring career in KidLit—the release of her new book, How to Say You’re Sorry (the latest installment in her How to collection | published by Beach Lane Books/Simon & Schuster), why forgiveness must unfold at its own pace, the quiet power of simply listening when emotions run high, and her thoughtful guidance for helping parents and educators lead children toward sincere apologies, meaningful amends, and healthier friendships—plus much more. 
We encourage you, our friends and neighbors, to support Stephanie’s mission by getting your copy of How to Say You’re Sorry—and enjoying this empowering read with your little ones: https://bit.ly/4gBDMSl. 
How to Say You’re Sorry 
Text copyright © 2026 by Stephanie Calmenson • Illustrations copyright © 2026 by Shannon McNeill. Used with permission. Published by Beach Lane Books/Simon & Schuster. All rights reserved.
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